首先,提前进行联系,了解你是否受欢迎。如果亲友表示时机不合适,就不要强求。如果对方表示热烈欢迎,就共同商定到达时间,但要注意避免在凌晨一两点钟上门。如无特殊情况,务必遵守约定时间。 其次,借宿期间,应设法适应主人的习惯,而不要让主人适应你的时间表。如果他们习惯晚睡而你又习惯早起,那么在他们起床之前你应注意轻手轻脚。 First, contact in advance to see if you are welcome. If relatives and friends say the timing is not appropriate, do not insist. If the other party gives a warm welcome, agree on the time of arrival, but be careful not to come home one or two o’clock in the morning. If no special circumstances, be sure to observe the agreed time. Second, during your stay, try to adapt to your host’s habits rather than let the host adapt to your schedule. If they get used to sleeping late and you get used to getting up early, you should be careful before they get up.