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我心里有两个贺贺我儿子叫贺贺,现在5岁多,因为淘气,做事不计后果,大人总爱说他。说轻了,他不理;说重了,他马上会哭着说:“妈妈,我以后再也不这样了。”可过后他还做同样的事,说同样的话。我能感觉到他很想做个好孩子,很在乎别人对他的评价,特别在乎我对他的态度,经常问我:“妈,你爱不爱我?我是不是好孩子?”“妈,你能不能对我说话好点儿?”犯了错误不让说,只要一说他的缺点,就表现得很不耐烦,或者干脆说妈妈不爱他了,不是他亲妈妈。他自己还会表述内心的矛盾,说“我心里有两个贺贺,一个让我做这件事,一个又不让我做这件事。”幼儿园规定不让把小朋友捐的书带回家看,他就偷偷地放在内衣里带回家,对我说是他的好朋友送的。第二天我才知道,他的那位好朋友那天根本就没去。道理给他讲了不少,他也明白这样做不对。在家里喜欢上了他表哥的东西也总是掖掖藏藏的。因为我经常给他讲这样做不对,有一次,他问我:“妈妈,我长大了会不会变成小偷?”孩子这样我真的好担心。
My heart has two congratulations to my son congratulations, and now 5 years old, because mischief, work regardless of the consequences, adults always love to say he. Said light, he ignored; say hello, he will soon cried: “Mom, I will never do so. ” But after he did the same thing, say the same thing. I can feel he really wants to be a good kid, cares about what others say about him, and especially cares about my attitude towards him and often asks me: “Mom, do you love me or not? Am I a good kid?” “Mom, can you talk to me better? ” Made a mistake to stop saying, as long as one of his shortcomings, he was very impatient, or simply say that the mother does not love him, not his mother . He himself will also express his inner contradiction and say, “There are two congratulations in my heart, one for me to do it and the other for me to do it.” “The kindergarten rules that children’s books should not be donated Go home to see, he secretly put underwear to bring home, told me that his best friend to send. The next day I learned that his good friend did not go that day. The truth told him a lot, he also understand that this is wrong. Things that love his cousin at home are always tucked away. Because I often told him to do so, on one occasion, he asked me: ”Mom, I grew up will not become a thief? " So I am really worried about children.