言传身教示范性。在基层,经常听到一些指导员抱怨:谈心难,难谈心。这其中的原因,恐怕在于有的同志只满足于让战士把心掏出来,而不善于做解“疙瘩”的工作。这种缺乏双向交流的谈心,使战士不能真切地感受到你的关心和帮助,自然效果就差强人意。古人说:“人之相交,贵在交心。”在谈心时,只要我们设身处地地站在对方的角度想一想,用充满热情和哲理的语言触及战士的心灵,真正达到心灵的碰撞和沟通,就能因势利 Precept and example demonstration. At the grassroots level, we often hear some instructors complain about talking hard and talking hard. The reason for this is probably that some comrades are only content to let the soldiers pull their hearts out and not be good at doing “knots”. This kind of lack of two-way exchange of talk, so that soldiers can not really feel your care and help, the natural effect of unsatisfactory. The ancients said: "When talking about the heart, as long as we put ourselves in the perspective of the other side to think about it, with a passionate and philosophical language touches the soul of soldiers and truly reach the heart of the collision and Communication, you can snobbish