问:一天,我问儿子:“你有几个哥哥?”他回答:“大姨家有一个,舅舅家有一个,我有两个哥哥。”见孩子回答得非常好,我就换了一个角度问:“那大姨家的哥哥有几个弟弟?”孩子无论如何也回答不上来。当时,我感到奇怪,后来发现儿子考虑问题时,只会从自己的角度出发。这种“以自我为中心”的状态,如果留心观察,处处可见。宋晓英答:这种思维特点,家长如果不加以引导,孩子会慢慢形成“人人为我,我是中心”的思维习惯。要想帮助孩子树立正确的观点,纠正“以我为中心”的思想,家长 Q: One day, I asked my son, “How many elder brothers do you have?” He replied: “There is one aunt and one uncle and I have two older brothers.” “See my child answered very well. For a point of view Q: ”What aunt brother brother?“ ”The child can not answer anyway. At that time, I was surprised, and later discovered that his son considered the issue, only from their own point of view. This “self-centered ” state, if you look carefully, you can see everywhere. Song Xiaoying A: The characteristics of this thinking, if parents do not guide, children will slowly form a “everyone for me, I am the center of” thinking habits. To help children establish a correct view, correct the idea of ​​“taking me as the center”, parents