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一在伊索寓言中,有这样一则故事:北风要和太阳比试谁更有力量。有人穿着大衣走过,北风便施展威力,使劲地吹,结果那人的大衣越裹越紧。北风累了,停止了。这时,太阳温暖地照耀着,那人感到闷热敞开了胸怀,不一会,出汗了,他便脱去了大衣。这个流传了上千年的故事说明了这样一个道理:温暖和友善会比暴力和冷酷更有征服力。因为暴力和冷酷只会使人增加对你的戒备之心,对你敬而远之;而温暖和友善却能让人卸去心灵的盔甲,让你的力量直抵对方的内心。
In Aesop’s Fables, there is a story like this: The north wind wants to be more powerful than the sun test. Someone walking in a coat, the north wind will exert its power, blowing hard, the result of the man’s coat wrapped more tight. North wind tired, stopped. At this time, the sun shone warmly, the man felt hot open heart, a short while, sweating, he took off the coat. This story, which has spread for thousands of years, illustrates the truth that warmth and friendliness are more conquering than violence and coldness. Because violence and cruelty will only increase one’s alertness to you and keep you at arm’s length; while warmth and friendliness will unlearn the armor of the soul and keep your strength against each other’s heart.