不哭的孩子在暑期开展的“家长成长营”里,我让每一个学员追溯自己的成长之路,回顾童年的生活。他们在向我诉说的过程中会泪流满面,泣不成声。可是,他们在诉说之前往往会说自己已经不会哭了。印象很深的是一位叫林素的妈妈,她是这样描述她的经历的:“小时候的记忆里父亲只是一个名称而已,他充满着不容挑战的权威和距离。妈妈说我们兄妹四个爸爸只抱过大姐一个孩子。爸爸不知道我的出生年份,甚至不记得我的学名。我一度怀疑 In the summer, ”Parents Grow Camp“, I asked every student to trace their own path of growth and review their childhood. They burst into tears when they told me that they were crying. However, they tend to say they will not cry until they tell. Impressed is a mother named Lin Su, she describes her experience as follows: ”childhood memories of his father just a name only, he is full of an unassailable authority and distance .Mother said we four siblings Dad holds only a big sister a child.Daddy do not know my year of birth, do not even remember my scientific name.I once suspected