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青春期之所以被称之为“危险期”,是因为青春期高涨起来的自我意识和知识、经验、能力的相对缺乏,使孩子的内心处于既离不开父母的指导,又反抗父母约束的矛盾状态。在这个发育阶段,如果父母的教育方法不当,妨碍孩子自主性的发展和独立权的追求,那么孩子就会把父母的生活照顾、行为指导都视为束缚加以反抗和排斥。而脱离了父母监控和指导的孩子,他们就可能因知识、能力的局限给成长带来更多的挫折或伤害。
The reason why adolescence is called the “dangerous period” is that the adolescent self-consciousness and the relative lack of knowledge, experience and abilities make the child’s inner world inseparable from the guidance of his parents and the contradiction between his parents’ restraints . At this stage of development, if parents fail to educate their children and hinder the development of children’s autonomy and the pursuit of independence, children will regard their parents’ life care and behavior guidance as the bondage to be resisted and excluded. And out of their parents monitoring and guidance of children, they may be due to the limitations of knowledge and ability to bring more growth frustration or injury.