张爱玲有句名言,大意是:一个女人要保持年轻,一是要生活安定,二是要心里不安定。此言一语中的,然而,话仍没有说完。不单是女人,所有人保持年轻的秘诀皆在于此:既对现状安然、满意,又兼具对未来的勃勃野心。一言以蔽之:带着微笑进发,在知足中进取。 Zhang Ailing has a well-known saying to the effect that a woman must stay young. First, she must live a stable life. Second, she must be uneasy in her heart. In this statement, however, the words are still not finished. Not only women, all the secrets of keeping young are here: they are both safe and satisfied with the status quo, and they also have a great ambition for the future. In a word: take a smile and progress, entertain in contentment.