路旁的灌木不会因为有参天大树的庇护而伟岸挺拔,那是因为,树的高大给周围带来的不是光明而是它背后的阴影。我想,信念也一样,无论多么执著与坚定,都不能由别人施加而无视自身。一个人的信念也许是非常好的,但要让它成为别人的信念,必须经过恰当而有效的转化,否则,可能事与愿违。有些家长总想把自己的信念强加给孩子,我不怀疑动机的纯正,但效果往往值得怀疑。信念,属于自己的,才具有力量源泉的意义。 Roadside shrubs will not be as tall and straight as the shelter of towering trees, it is because the tall trees to the surrounding is not the light but the shadow behind it. I think the same belief, no matter how persistent and firm, can not be imposed by others and ignore themselves. A person’s belief may be very good, but to make it a belief in others, must be properly and effectively transformed, otherwise, may be contrary to expectations. Some parents always want to impose their own beliefs on children, I do not doubt the pure motivation, but the effect is often questionable. Faith, belonging to oneself, has the meaning of the source of strength.