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或许你也有过这样的经验,当朋友生病、面对亲人死亡、或是正在经受着重大的痛苦时,在他旁边的你,突然会变得不知所措,不知道该说什么,不知道怎么应对,甚至连手该往哪里摆都不清楚。怎么会这样?到底如何才能够给予对方真正的安慰呢?面对对方的伤痛或难堪,能帮上什么忙,应该怎么帮才有效?朋友痛苦的时候,如何按捺自己的不安和疑问,去安抚他的痛苦,帮他挨过去?安慰的误操作,你有吗?朋友因为做过的错误决定,后悔不已,你也为他心急,但却对他说“我早说过了,你那样做肯定
Perhaps you also have the experience that when a friend is ill, dies in the death of a loved one, or is experiencing great suffering, you next to him suddenly become overwhelmed, do not know what to say, do not know how Coping, even the hand where to put are not clear. How can this be? In the end how to give each other real comfort? Facing each other’s pain or embarrassment, what can help to help, how to help effective? Friends painful, how to restrain their anxiety and doubt Appease his pain, to help him get through? Comfort misconduct, do you have? Friends because of the wrong decision made, regret, you are impatient for him, but he said ”I already said, you That’s for sure