其实人生有很多东西是无法选择的,比如我们不能按照理想去选择漂亮的外表、良好的出身、有钱的父母……放弃对外貌的过分关注.把时间和精力花在对自己的人生有意义的事情上来。接受不能改变的,改变能够改变的。——摘自《赢自己才是最重要的》 In fact, there are many things in life that cannot be chosen. For example, we cannot choose the beautiful appearance, good birth, and rich parents according to their ideals... give up the excessive attention to the outside world. Take time and energy to make sense for your own life. Things come up. Acceptance cannot be changed, change can be changed. - Excerpt from “Winning Yourself is the Most Important”