儿童离不开成人对他们的赞赏,因为儿童最能敏锐地感觉到成人对他们的态度。成人的态度是儿童对自身言行作出价值判断的依据,赞赏则是激发儿童内心张力的不可或缺的外部驱力。一位美国幼儿园教师教孩子画苹果。她先发给每人一个苹果,让他们看、摸、闻、吃,然后请他们画画。一开始,多数孩子画得像西 Children can not do without adult appreciation of them because children are most acutely aware of the attitude of adults to them. Adult attitudes are the basis for children’s value judgment of their own words and deeds, while appreciation is an indispensable external drive to stimulate children’s inner tension. An American kindergarten teacher teaches children to draw apples. She first sends an apple to each person, let them see, touch, smell, eat, and then ask them to draw. At first, most children painted like West