人到中年了,很多朋友和同学都已经有了几十年的交往和友谊。每当大家相聚在一起的时候,总是会听到这样的议论:哪一位朋友混的怎么样,哪一位同学的人生道路本来可以有另一种走法,哪一位同窗如果不犯哪一种错误,也许就是一番大境界了。大家似乎总想弄明白一些事情,甚至弄明白一个人,弄明白我们所处的世界。到了一定的年龄,有了丰富的人生阅历,因此对人生有了很多的感概,这是正常的。但是,如 Middle-aged people, many of my friends and classmates have had decades of contacts and friendship. Whenever we get together, always hear such a discussion: Which friend mixed how, which students can have another way of life, which one of the classmate if you do not make any A mistake, maybe it’s a big state. Everyone seems to always want to understand something, even to understand a person, to understand our world. To a certain age, with a wealth of life experience, so life has a lot of feeling, this is normal. However,