浙江湖州一位读者来电说:“我的孩子老实乖巧,但是他一遇到事情就没了主意,什么都问我们该怎么办。在家里这样,在学校也这样。我们该怎样帮他寻找到自我,做个有主见的小男子汉呢?”主持:主见就是对事情有自己确定的主意。如果孩子既乖巧听话,遇到事情又能坚持自己正确的看法,不人云亦云,这在竞争的社会里,将有利于孩子的健康发展。怎样培养有主见的孩子,我们看看杭州市的部分家长是怎样说的吧。 One of our readers in Huzhou, Zhejiang Province, said: “My children are well-behaved, but he does not have an idea when it comes to things. He asks us what to do. At home, so is school. How can we help him find To self, to be a assertive little man it? ”Host: Advocacy is to have their own idea of ​​things. If the children are obedient and obedient, they will stick to their correct view when they encounter problems and they will not benefit others. This will be conducive to the healthy development of children in a competitive society. How to cultivate the assertive children, let’s see some of the parents in Hangzhou is how to say it.