刚刚过去的2016年,校园暴力话题引起了社会各界的热议。我倒是想在此给“热”议论降降温。首先是“暴力”一词用于还在学习和成长的孩子身上似乎过于激烈了。孩子走进学校,实际上是走入社会的实习期。孩子走入学校接受教育,不仅仅是学习知识,也要学习人际交往。每一天在学校与同学、老师的相处,都是孩子学习与人交往的操练过程。练习的过程中,自然会有磕磕绊绊,摔个跤也是难免的。面对孩子遇到的人际问题,家长到底能做些什么时常会接到为人父母的朋友充满担心的 Just in 2016, the topic of campus violence has aroused heated discussions from all walks of life. I’d like to give here “hot ” argument to cool down. The first is that the term “violence” seems to be too intense for children who are still learning and growing up. Children into the school, in fact, into the community internship. Children go to school to receive education, not only learning knowledge, but also learning interpersonal relationships. Every day in school and students, teachers get along, are children learning and human interaction process. Practice the process, there will be a natural stumbling block, wrestling is inevitable. In the face of the child’s interpersonal problems encountered, what parents can do in the end often receive parental friends full of concern