当下有不少夫妻,没法用幸福或不幸福来衡量,而是介于两者之间,处于一个“灰色地带”——亚婚姻状态。他们有法律意义上的婚姻,却没有完整、正常的家庭生活;夫妻之间有了不和谐因素,甚至出现了危机,但没有改善的途径或意愿。过去,导致这一情况的一个突出原因,是夫妻长期两地分居,现在,亚婚姻已不是分居夫妻的专利,一些朝夕相处的夫妻,随着婚龄的增加,激情渐渐消退,也会变得貌合神离。调查显示,当今有22%的夫妻处于亚婚姻状态。这样的夫妻表面和睦,却掩盖着夫妻冷战、相互漠视及身心煎熬。有些人也想努力改变,但却无从下手,表现出无能为力,一片茫然。那么,一对恩爱和睦的夫妻,如何才能绕开亚婚姻雷区,避免成为亚婚姻夫妻呢? There are many couples nowadays who can not be measured by happiness or unhappiness. They are in between, in a “gray zone” - sub-marital status. They have a legal marriage, but there is no complete and normal family life. There are discordant factors between husband and wife and even a crisis but no way or intention to improve. In the past, one prominent reason that led to this situation was the long-term separation of husband and wife. Now, the sub-marriage is no longer a patent for the separation of husband and wife. Some couples who work together from morning till evening will become fatigued as the marriage age increases. Survey shows that today, 22% of couples in the state of marriage in Asia. Such husband and wife face harmony, but covered the couple cold war, indifference and mental and physical suffering. Some people also want to make great efforts to change, but they have no way to start, showing no power, a loss. So how can a loving and harmonious couple bypass the sub-district of marriage and marriage and avoid becoming a sub-marriage couple?