曾经接触过一对夫妻,没有打架,没有婆媳矛盾,没有一方出轨,没有财产纠纷,两人却都觉得过不下去了。女士的控诉是丈夫不再关爱自己,频繁和朋友喝酒、打牌、爬山,喜欢与年轻女同事开玩笑;男士则表示受不了妻子的唠叨,也看不惯妻子传播八卦消息。他们的婚姻到底怎么了?有专家指出,这是由于忽视了家庭内部管理。的确,生活中,经营家庭的复杂程度和专业要求往往被人们严重低估。家庭不是一幢房子,而是一个拥有自身规律的鲜活组织。如果我们习惯了漫不经心地经营家庭,害怕在这方面费脑子,不愿意投入 Have contact with a couple, no fighting, no law-abiding, no one derailed, no property disputes, but they both feel over. The lady’s complaint is that her husband no longer cares about her, frequently drinks with her friends, plays cards, climbs mountains and likes to joke with her young female colleagues. The man says she can not stand his wife’s nagging and can not understand his wife’s spread of gossip. What happened to their marriage? Some experts pointed out that this is due to the neglect of family management. Indeed, in life, the complexity and professionalism of running a family is often seriously underestimated. The family is not a house, but a living organization with its own laws. If we are accustomed to carelessly running the family, afraid to mind in this area, do not want to invest