如果要用一个成语来概括家庭教育,我想应该是“言传身教”;如果要用重要性和有效性来排序,那么这个成语应该倒过来,叫“身教言传”。每个孩子都是先从模仿开始学习的,父母就是他的模仿对象;对于幼儿来说,这个模仿对象通常是妈妈。如果家长有不良的心理倾向而不自知、不自制,很可能同化孩子,给孩子的性格造成消极影响。所以,许多教育专家认为,家庭教育的第一步,是家长的自我教育。以下三个案例,或许对家长有所启发。 If you want to use a idiom to summarize family education, I think it should be “words and deeds, ” If you want to sort by importance and effectiveness, then this idiom should be reversed, called . Every child learns first from imitation. Parents are his imitation objects. For young children, the object of imitation is usually mother. If parents have bad psychological inclination and do not know, do not self-control, it is likely to assimilate the child, the child’s personality has a negative impact. Therefore, many education experts believe that the first step in family education is the self-education of parents. The following three cases, may be inspired by the parents.