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我读了1995年第4期《家长》晓桥的文章《家长打孩子未必是无能》,有所感触,特别是文中提到的“我们现在的中老年人,有几个在成长过程中,没有受到父母的责打,而我们当家长的又有几个没有打过自己的孩子?”以此来证明打孩子不是“无能”,而是“有理”。我认为一个人成长过程中挨父母的打,或者作为家长打了孩子,这确实是普遍存在的现象,但是作为一种教育孩子的方法推出,我认为是不妥的。我翻阅过几本教育理论书,没有发现对孩子应该“打”的理论阐述,当然书上没有的也可以创造、发明,然而当我坐下来仔细回想十几年来的教育实践,就感到用“打”的方法来教育孩子是错误的,是不能教育
I read in 1995 the fourth “parents” Xiaoqiao article “parents may not be impotence,” some feel, especially the text mentioned in the article, “We now the elderly, several in the process of growth, Not being beaten by their parents, and how many of us, parents, have not played their own children? ”In order to prove that playing children is not“ incompetent ”but“ rational. ” I think that it is indeed a ubiquitous phenomenon that a man’s parents are beaten during their development or that they are beaten as parents. However, I think it is not proper to introduce a method to educate children. I have read through a few educational theory books and found no theoretical explanations that my children should “fight”. Of course, I can create and invent without the book. However, when I sit back and review the education practice more than a decade ago, I feel that I have used “ Playing ”method to educate children is wrong, can not be educated