《庄子》中有一个有趣的故事:庄子家已经贫穷到揭不开锅的地步了,无奈之下,只好硬着头皮到监河侯家去借粮。监河侯是个很实际的人,他知道庄子不过是有些学问却没有什么生活能力的人,借了粮食是没有能力归还的。可是,他又不好当面拒绝,就假装爽快地答应借粮。他说:“你是大学问家,我非常愿意 There is an interesting story in Chuang Tzu: Chuang Tzu’s family has become so impoverished that it can not be opened any more. In desperation, it is necessary to bite the bullet to go to the river Hou to borrow grain. River Hou Hou is a very real person, he knows Chuang Tzu but some people who have no ability to learn, borrowed food is incapable of return. However, he refused to personally refuse to pretend to readily refuse to borrow food. He said: ”You are a university home, I am very willing