“你为什么失误那么多,比赛怎么打的?平常练的都跑到哪里去了?”这是比赛结束后我们可能经常见到的一个情景,选手输了,被一通狂骂,不论选手比赛的过程如何;而当然也有另一种情况,选手实力很强,用应付的态度打赢了对手,下来之后,并没有受到指责,甚至家长或教练还到处去炫耀。我想,以上两种都不是很好的处理方式。我曾经听过一个家长说,他带自 “Why do you miss so much, how to fight the game? Where are the usual training went?” This is the end of the game we may often see a scenario, the player lost, was a wild curse, regardless of the player The course of the game; and of course, there is another situation, the players strong, win the opponent with coping attitude, down, and not be accused, and even parents or coaches also go to show off. I think the above two are not very good approach. I once heard a parent say he took