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在社交中,真诚地赞美别人并懂得如何赞美别人是点燃友谊之火的奇方。心理学研究表明,尊重是人的一种高级需要。人们需要自尊,希望别人尊重自己的人格,而赞美是对人的价值的肯定和积极评价,是对人的最有效的尊重,几乎所有的人都喜欢听到赞美、表扬之辞。同时,赞美别人能增强对方的自信,带给人新的力量和活力,在交际中可以调节谈话气氛、拉近彼此距离。赞美别人并非庸俗的奉承、讨好,只要你出以真诚,留心观察,你会发现人人都有值得赞扬的地方,比
In socializing, praising others in good faith and knowing how to compliment others is the magic of igniting the fire of friendship. Psychological research shows that respect is a high-level human needs. People need self-esteem and hope that others respect their own personality. Praise is the affirmation and positive evaluation of people’s worth and the most effective respect for people. Almost all people like to hear the words of praise and praise. At the same time, praising others can enhance each other’s self-confidence and bring new strength and vitality to people. In communication, the atmosphere of conversation can be adjusted and the distance between each other can be narrowed. Praise others is not vulgar flattery, please, as long as you out in good faith, observe carefully, you will find that everyone has a place to be commended