有专家提出,“早恋”一词易使学生反感,甚至导致学生产生逆反心理,从而使教育失败。而“来往过密”却避开了学生极为反感的“恋”字,教育可以在心平气和中进行,可以收到良好的效果。绝不能把男女学生的来往,哪怕是“过密”,视为“早恋”。不要把“来往过密”的学生视为后进生,更不要认为是品质问题,特别不要歧视他们。对于这个提法,家长们可是看法不 Some experts have suggested that the term “puppy love” tends to arouse students’ resentment and even lead students to become rebellious and make education fail. The “over-secret” has avoided the extremely obnoxious “love” of the students. Education can be carried out in an atmosphere of peace and can receive good results. Never to male and female students, even if it is “too close”, as “puppy love.” Do not think of “over-crowded” students as backward students, let alone think of quality problems, in particular, do not discriminate against them. For this formulation, parents do not think so