人们有时候迫于各种压力只能在背后对不满意的人和事发表意见,这种背后说人坏话的方式是语言上的暴力行为,很可能落得一个“长舌妇”的恶名,但是它真正的坏处在于这是一种搬起石头砸自己脚的行为。例如,当A对B说C的坏话,在B听着不良品质的描述时,眼中看到的却是A的脸。即使B在理性上知道是在描述C,但是潜意识却不受理性控 Sometimes people under various pressures can only express their opinions on the unsatisfied people and things behind them. This kind of behind-the-scenes way of saying bad language is verbal violence and may well end up being notorious for “gossip” But the real downside is that it’s a rock-smashing act. For example, when A is telling C’s bad words about B, when B listens to bad quality descriptions, he sees the face of A. Even though B knows rationally to describe C, subconsciousness is unconscionable