对于夫妇相处之道,传统的观念一直都强调以和为贵。长辈们的教训是避免争吵冲突,讲究“忍让”。认为彼此各退一步,互相迁就,就能令婚姻关系维持和永久。但是,最近美国有关专家所作出的一项研究显示,假如夫妇双方经常退让,尽量避免争论冲突,会对婚姻造成不良的影响。 For the couple to get along with each other, the traditional concept has always emphasized harmony. The lesson of elders is to avoid disputes and disputes, pay attention to “tolerance”. Think each other take a step back, mutual accommodation, will be able to maintain the marital relationship and permanent. However, a recent study by experts in the United States shows that if the couple often refuses to try to avoid contention of the conflict, it will have a negative impact on the marriage.