“记住别人的好,忘掉自己的好。”这是我听奶奶说过的话。小时很懵懂,不觉得这话有什么哲理。小时候赣北的冬天比现在冷很多,经常会下过膝的雪。融雪时瓦上会挂很长很大的冰溜子。屋里生起了火塘,一家人围着烤火。叔叔会给我讲传,多是《三国》《水浒》《西游》《征东》《征西》《薛刚反唐》里的故事。年关近时,大人们开始计划过年的事儿,远处的亲 “Remember other people’s good, forget yourself. ” This is what I heard my grandmother said. Hours are ignorant, do not think what philosophy these words. When I was young, the winter in northern Jiangxi was much colder than it is now, and I often slept under the snow. When the snow melt will hang a very long ice cream. Huo Tong was born in the house, the family surrounded by roasted fire. Uncle will give me a talk, mostly “Three Kingdoms”, “Water Margin”, “Journey to the West”, “Learned”, “Zheng Xi” “Xue Gang Tang” in the story. As the year approaches, adults start planning New Year’s events and distant kin