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在教育孩子方面,不少家长都有这样一个观点,那就是和栽种小树一样,要时不时地修剪枝杈,才不会让小树长歪。同样,家长们觉得要时时刻刻去提醒孩子的不恰当行为,引导他们做一个自己心目中的乖孩子,才是帮助孩子成才的有效手段,而严厉的责备就如同园丁手中的剪刀,修剪着孩子“不合时宜”的行为,但是有多少家长知道,你这样看似严厉的教育却在伤害着孩子的自信心?
In terms of educating children, many parents have the view that the same is true of planting small trees, and twigs should be trimmed from time to time so that the trees will not be distorted. Similarly, parents feel it necessary to remind their children to behave at all times and to guide them to be good children in their own right, which is an effective way to help their children to become successful. The severe reproof is like the scissors in the gardener’s hands, Children “out of date ” behavior, but how many parents know that your seemingly harsh education is hurting the child’s self-confidence?