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当婚姻走到了尽头,夫妻可以选择离婚,孩子几乎没有选择的权利,他们只能面对:或跟随其中的一方,或被留在老人身边,眼睁睁看着自己的亲生妈妈或者爸爸离自己而去,随之而来的是重大的生活变化。孩子会本能地感到恐惧、害怕,继而是愤怒、生气,最后是无助和抑郁。很多孩子可能出现行为反常。有一项调查发现,父母离异都给孩子的心灵留下了“一碰就痛的伤口”。文明社会,离婚和结婚一样,都应受到尊重。但如何将离异造成的对孩子的伤害程度降到最低,是很多家庭的盲点。
When the marriage comes to an end, the couple can choose to divorce, the child has almost no right to choose, they can only face: or follow one of them, or stay in the elderly, watch their own biological mother or father away from themselves , Followed by major changes in life. Children are instinctively afraid, afraid, then angry, angry, and finally helpless and depressed. Many children may behave abnormally. A survey found that divorce both parents left the child’s heart left “a touch of pain wounds.” Civilized societies, like divorces and marriages, should all be respected. However, it is the blind spot for many families that how to minimize the harm to children caused by divorce.