玛丽和她的上司一直像朋友一样亲近,一起去餐厅吃饭,去酒吧聊天,她们互相交流自己的家事, 谈论自己的感情问题,过节的时候互相交换礼物,一切看上去更像同事而不是上下级关系。但突然有一天玛丽告诉我她决定换工作,因为她和上司的关系已经成了她工作发展的障碍。虽然上司经常说支持 Mary and her boss have been as close as friends, eating together in the restaurant, chatting in the bar, talking to each other about their own family affairs, talking about their feelings, exchanging gifts each other during holidays, and all looking more like colleagues rather than superiors relationship. But suddenly one day Mary told me she decided to change jobs because her relationship with her boss had become an obstacle to the development of her job. Although the boss often said support