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第一次婚姻使我成熟第一次婚姻我至今也不愿提及。那时的我根本不懂夫妻相处之道,只知道两个人相爱就够了,结果与婆婆的关系处理得不好,影响了我们夫妻的感情,我俩经常为了一些琐碎的事情吵架。那时,我会列举出他家的种种不是,他先是不耐烦,之后就反驳我。在他的反驳中,我的火气会更大。就这样,我们经常因为一点小事,人为地放大几十倍对方的过错,每次都吵得不可开交,直到吵到离婚的边缘,我依然不愿低下高贵的头,执著地认为是他家错了,若干年之后,我再回首看看当年的婚姻,才发现自己是那么幼稚和无知。
The first marriage made me mature The first marriage I still do not want to mention. At that time, I did not know how to get along with the couple. I only knew that it would be enough for the two to fall in love. The result was a poor relationship with my mother-in-law that affected the feelings of our husband and wife. We often quarreled with trivial matters. At that time, I will list all kinds of his family is not, he first impatient, then refute me. In his refute, my anger will be greater. In this way, we often artificially magnify a few times the fault of the other person for a trivial matter. Each time we have a fight, until we get to the verge of divorce, I still do not want to lower the noble head, and persistently regard him as my fault A few years later, I look back at the marriage of that year, only to find myself so naive and ignorant.