要想教育好孩子,不仅要多学习相关的知识,还要注意摸索规律。自己摸索出的规律往往比从书本上学到的方法更有使用价值。我自己曾是教员,喜欢琢磨这方面的问题。我发现了这样一个规律:孩子普遍具有一种较强的逆反心理,打自己心中的小九九。在这种心理的高峰期,最听不进家长、老 To educate children, not only to learn more about the relevant knowledge, but also pay attention to explore the law. The laws we find themselves are often more useful than the methods learned from books. I myself was a teacher, like pondering this issue. I found such a law: children generally have a strong sense of rebelling, hit their hearts small ninety-nine. In this peak of psychology, most do not listen to parents, old