街头巷尾,家事纠纷屡有所闻:或因婚事,父子反目为仇;或为钱财,兄妹唇枪舌剑;或为一句话、一件小事,夫妻俩吵得面红耳赤、怒发冲冠……于是,一个好端端的家庭,一时间遭受到“血”与“火”的洗礼。这些司空见惯的争吵,且不说影响情绪、牵扯精力、伤害身体、妨碍工作,更重要的是污染了环境,只因为“一人吵闹,十人不安”。总之,它与我们倡导的精神文明建设大相径庭。家庭作为社会中的基本细胞,家庭内部协调与否,直接关系到整个社会的安定。家庭又是我们每个人安身之处,安身处的清静与否,又直接影响到人们的情绪与健康、工作与休息。纵观家庭 The streets, the family disputes often heard: or because of marriage, father and son turn their heads for enemies; or for money, siblings lips and swords; or for a word, a trifle, the couple fawn, angry rushing ... ... So, a good end of the family, For a time suffered “blood” and “fire” of the baptism. These common quarrels, not to mention the influence of emotions, involve energy, hurt the body, obstruct work, more importantly, pollute the environment, just because “one person noisy, ten people restless.” In short, it is very different from the spiritual civilization we advocate. As the basic cell in society, family coordination within the family is directly related to the stability of the entire society. The family is where every one of us lives, and the quietness of living in it directly affects people’s emotions and health, work and rest. Looking at the family