婆媳矛盾是一件件小事堆积而成的,是一个个细节固化爆发的,是建立在父母对已婚子女婚姻生活“入侵”的基础上的。那么,是什么给了大家庭“入侵”小家庭的空间?婆媳问题的本质,是年轻夫妻经济能力不足大多数年轻夫妻在买房装修、生儿育女这两件大事上都需要父母(尤其是男方父母)来承担很大一部分责任,而这种责任的承担,恰恰给婆媳矛盾埋下了一个巨大伏笔。 The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a pile up of small things, one of which erupts in detail and is based on the parents’ “married” married life “invasion”. So, what gives the big family “invasion ” the space of the small family? The essence of the issue of the law of the mother and daughter-in-law is the lack of economic ability of the young couple. Most young couples need their parents in these two major issues of house decoration and children’s birth Especially the male parents) to assume a large part of the responsibility, and the commitment of this responsibility, just to the contradictions between the mother-in-law buried a huge foreshadowed.