大千世界,有竞争就会有对手。商场里的竞争、职场上的角逐、竞技扬上的比拼……难免会遇到对手。因不敌对手而被淘汰的情形屡见不鲜。作为输者,如何对待对手?一种人随着一声自叹,便沉溺于自卑的消极中,从此再也萌发不出与对手较量的勇气了。另一种人则把对手视为心腹大患,恨不得除之而后快。甚至顿足捶胸:“既生瑜,何生亮!”最值得称道的是第三种人——在对手面前永不服输者。他们的心态是“感谢对手”。 In a world where there is competition there will be an opponent. Competition in shopping malls, competitions in the workplace, competitive competitions Yang ... ... will inevitably encounter opponents. Occurred due to lack of opponents were eliminated situation. As a loser, how to deal with opponents? A person with a sigh, they indulge in the inferiority of self-esteem, and then no longer have the courage to contend with opponents. Another kind of opponents view the opponent as a big deal, can not wait but fast. And even enough to beat the chest: “Both Sheng Yu, Ho Seng Liang!” The most commendable is the third person - never give up before the opponent. Their mentality is “thanks for the opponent ”.