古代大教育家孔子有一句话:“巧言令色,鲜矣仁。”是说巧舌如簧的人是不可归于君子的行列的。孔子还说:“敏于事而慎于言。”这些话千百年来制约着我们的教育思想。 长期以来,人们都认为语言表达能力和社交能力是不需要进行专门的教育,似乎这些东西并不是社会生活必需的,甚至许多人对那些语言表达能力强的人具有种种偏见。 Confucius, an ancient educator, has a saying: “Speaking words and making beautiful colors, fresh and honest.” It means that people who are tongue-in-cheek are not in the rank of gentleman. Confucius also said: “Be cautious about things with sensitivity.” These words have constrained our educational thinking for thousands of years. For a long time, people believe that language expression and social skills do not require special education. It seems that these things are not necessary for social life. Many people even have prejudice against those who have strong language skills.