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在邯郸市中心地带有一座学步桥,传说在战国时代,燕国寿陵有个少年到赵国都城邯郸,看到邯郸人走路的姿态很美,就跟着学起来,结果不但没有学好,反而连自己原来的走法也忘记了,只好爬着回到家乡。其实,现实生活中,一些人也是这样邯郸学步,总是在意他人的评价,左右徘徊,无所适从,当自己挫折与失败发生了,抱怨他人对自己的干扰,怀疑是外在因素导致的。就如那个燕国人,模仿别人不到家,反
In the center of Handan City, there is a trestle bridge. Legend has it that in the Warring States Period, there was a teenager from Yan State to Handan, the capital of Zhao State. When he saw the people walking in Handan were in a beautiful posture, they learned along with them. As a result, they not only did not learn well, Even forget their own original method, had to climb back home. In fact, in real life, some people are so handicapped and always care about the evaluation of others. They are hovering around and confused. When their frustrations and failures happen, they complain about the interference of others and are suspected of being caused by external factors. As Yan people, Imitation of others not home, anti