幼儿喜欢不停地活动。这种活动的主要动机虽然是为了获得愉快,但是若在活动稍有成就时,能立即得到成人的赞赏和鼓励,那么就会“强化”这种获得成就的情绪体验,激发孩子继续尝试的兴趣,以求得更大的“成就”。心理学研究认为,孩子在三岁前,每当智力活动方面有所成就时,如能适时地得到父母的鼓励,不仅能激起孩子当时的探索热情,而且入学之后,他的学习动机、兴趣、毅力和自制力都将比在三岁之前未获得过鼓励的孩子为好。因此,作父母的决不能 Children like to keep activities. Although the primary motivation for such activities is to make them happy, if they are immediately acclaimed and encouraged by adults when they are slightly successful, they will “reinforce” this emotional experience of achievement and stimulate their interest in continuing to try , In order to achieve greater “achievement.” Psychological studies suggest that when children get achievements in their intellectual activities before they are three years of age, encouraging their parents to do so promptly not only arouses their children’s enthusiasm for exploration at the time, but also their motivation and interest in learning after entering school , Perseverance and self-control will be better than children who were not encouraged before the age of three. Therefore, parents must not