只有孩子们学会自觉、自律,才能成为一个独立的“人”。作者总结的“自我管理的一二三四法则”以及“4岁可学方法论,6岁可学辩证法”等教育方法,新颖实用,颇具启发意义。孩子难管,学生难教,相信这是困扰许多家长和教师的难题,现代管理学之父彼得·德鲁克曾说,“最好的管理就是自我管理。”然而,中国的孩子为什么普遍缺乏自觉性呢?当今家长喜欢大包大揽,而老师又没能真正把学生当作教育主体等等都是主要原因。 Only when children learn to be conscious and self-disciplined can they become independent “people”. The author summarizes the “one two three four principle of self-management” and “4-year-old methodology can learn, 6-year-old can learn dialectics” and other educational methods, innovative and practical, quite instructive. Children are hard to handle and students are hard to teach. I believe this is a difficult problem for many parents and teachers. Peter Drucker, the father of modern management, once said that “the best management is self-management.” However, why Chinese children General lack of consciousness? Today’s parents like big packages, and teachers did not really students as the main subject of education are the main reasons.