父亲去世十年了,很多事已经淡化。朋友们多次建议我写写父亲,都被我推辞了。一来因为父亲名气较大,已经有多人写过有关他的文章并发表,二来由儿子来写父亲,难免有自我吹嘘之嫌,我的文笔不好,即便写出文章,跟那些以往写父亲的文章相比,恐怕也是丢人现眼。另外还有一个深层次的原因,回忆父亲的一生经历,对我来说是个很痛苦且很艰难的事。每当有人提起他,会有很多赞许,同时又有更多的叹息。每当我回忆起那些遭遇,都像揭开已经痊愈的伤疤, Father died ten years, a lot of things have been diluted. My friends repeatedly suggested that I write father, I have been pushed off. Since my father was famous, many people wrote and published articles about him, and secondly, my son wrote his father, it is inevitable that I boast too much. My style of writing is not good. Even if I write an article, Compared to writing his father’s article, I am afraid it is shameful. There is another deep-seated reason, recalling his father’s life experience, for me it is a very painful and very difficult thing. Whenever someone mentioned him, there will be a lot of praise, but also more sighs. Whenever I recall those encounters, it is like uncovering the scars that have been healed,