程平平:我认为,如果让一位妈妈总是和风细雨地和孩子相处实在是很难。我们只能说尽量提醒自己不要在情绪不好的时候说一些不该说的话,比如“你再让妈妈生气,我就不爱你了”。但是,我们如何才能做到做事的时候不参与自己的情绪呢?张娟:我们所说的给孩子足够的爱,做合格的父母不是说不允许我们有情绪,而是在于当我们生气的时 Cheng Pingping: I think it would be very hard for a mom to always get along with the child. We can only say that we try our best to remind ourselves not to say something that should not be said when the mood is not good, such as “You make my mom angry, I do not love you ”. However, how do we do things when they do not participate in their emotions? Juan: We say enough to children love, qualified parents do not mean that we do not allow emotions, but rather that when we are angry