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问:父母的话,孩子越来越不听,常常回嘴,应该怎么办? 答:这好办。父母批评孩子,孩子回嘴,父母就洗耳恭听好了。孩子回嘴,一说明父母批评孩子的话,孩子听进去了;二说明父母的批评还不到位,孩子还不服气。不服气很好。不服气就请回嘴。孩子回嘴,父母正好找到新的突破口,深入一步再批评。如果批评到位了,孩子不吱声了。如果批评还不到位,孩子还会再回嘴的。一定要欢迎孩子回嘴,要把批评变为讨论,最终服从一个理。
Q: If my parents say that children are not listening more and more often, what should I do? A: It is easy to handle. Parents criticize their children, the children back to the mouth, parents wash and listen well. Children back to the mouth, a description of the parents criticize the children, the children listen to go in; Second, indicating that parents are not in place for criticism, the child is not convinced. Unconvinced good. If you’re not convinced, please talk back. Children back to mouth, parents just find a new breach, further criticism. If the criticism is in place, the child does not say a word. If the criticism is not yet in place, the child will be back again. We must welcome children back to the mouth, we should turn criticism into discussion, and ultimately obey a reason.