对于孩子青春期这个重要时刻的来临,很多父母并不是从孩子生理上的变化——比如女孩子的月经初潮,或是男孩子的遗精——感受到的,而是更多地从孩子对于父母的逆反体会到的。父母对于孩子生理上的变化,应当说是满心欢喜的,来了月经,证明女儿长成大姑娘了;儿子遗精了,说明孩子要变成大小伙子了。如果女儿十五六岁还没有来月经,儿子十六七岁说起话来还是童音,父母可 For the adolescent adolescent this important moment, many parents are not from the physical changes in children - such as the girl’s menarche, or the sperm of boys - feel, but more from children to parents Reversed body will come. Parents for the child’s physical changes, should be said to be full of joy, to the menstruation, that her daughter grow into a big girl; son spermatorrhea, indicating that the child to become a big boy. If my daughter is not yet 15 years old to menstruation, the son of sixteen-year-old talkative or child tone, parents can