叶老师,你好:直到昨天我都不认为我和他的感情和生活会被家庭和物质打败。因为我们各自出生在小康家庭,有着较好的教育背景和工作,在交往的这两年当中感情也很好。到了谈婚论嫁的时候,房子问题摆上了台面。我从来没想过这是问题,在我看来,我们双方的家庭都可以承受目前的房价,我们也有能力偿还贷款。而且我并不是拜金女 Hello, Teacher Yeh: I did not think until yesterday that I and his feelings and life would be defeated by family and material. Because we were born in well-to-do families, have a good education background and work, in the two years of contacts, affection is also very good. When it comes to getting married, the house problem is on the table. I never thought this was a problem. It seems to me that the families in both of us can afford the current prices and that we are capable of repaying the loans. And I’m not worshiped gold girl