一个叫“彩虹QQ糖”的女孩儿在网络上跟我倾诉说:“彤彤姐姐,我们班有一个男生很优秀,我很欣赏他,所以我便经常和他聊天儿。可是班里的同学老是说我们俩在谈恋爱。可事实上不是这样的呀!我和他只是朋友。我实在受不了同学们这么说我,我该怎么办呀?”我是这么回答她的:“这样的事情在你们这样的年龄实在是很正常,既然欣赏,就大胆地欣赏,男生和女生是可以做朋友的。只要你坦然、正确地对待你们的纯洁的朋友关系,那些流言蜚语就会越走越远。” A girl named “Rainbow QQ Sugar” talked to me on the internet and said: “Glowing sister, a boy from our class is very good and I really appreciate him, so I often chat with him. The classmates always say that we both fall in love. But in fact this is not the case! I was just a friend with him. I really can not stand the students say me, what should I do? ”I answered her : “Such things at your age is really normal, since appreciation, to boldly appreciate, boys and girls can be friends .As long as you calmly and correctly treat your relationship with friends, those gossip It will go farther and farther. ”