“花好月圆”是人们表达对良好婚姻关系的企求。然而,事实上由于夫妻双方在性格,文化、观念等多方面总是参差不齐的,婚姻冲突在每个家庭中总是或多或少地存在着。那么,如何使婚姻关系良好地持久地维持下去呢?那就必须对婚姻关系不断地进行调适。周恩来同志和邓颖超同志提出夫妻要互敬,互爱、互信,互勉、互帮、互让、互 “Flower full moon ” is the people express their desire for a good marriage. However, in fact, the marital conflicts are always more or less present in each family because the couple are always mixed in their personality, culture and concept. So, how to maintain a good and lasting marriage, then we must continue to adjust the marriage. Comrades Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao proposed that husband and wife should respect each other, love each other, trust each other, mutual encourage each other, help each other, give each other mutual benefits, and each other