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可怜天下父母心,这一句话足以把我们对孩子的一片挚爱之情表白得再清楚不过了。孩童时代,既有天真可爱的一面,又有顽皮淘气的一面,为人父母者,不仅有享受天伦之乐的权力,也有抚养教育孩子的义务。当孩子淘气或犯错误时,父母理当循循善诱,通过言传身教,帮助孩子改正缺点,使他们从小明白什么是对的,什么是错的。然而,有的家长却只知道批评教育孩子是为孩子好,对采取什么样的批评教育方法,却知之甚少。由于有的家长采取“三娘教子”式的粗暴办法,结果使孩子不仅认识不到自己的错误,反而使孩子产生逆反心理,不利于孩子的身心健康发展。
Pity the hearts and minds of parents, this sentence is enough to put one of our children’s love affair clear again. Childhood, both naive side, naughty naughty side, parents, not only have the power to enjoy their grandchildren, but also to raise children’s obligation to educate. When children naughty or make mistakes, parents should follow the example of temptation, through words and deeds to help children correct their shortcomings so that they can understand what is right and what is wrong from an early age. However, some parents only know that criticizing the education of their children is good for their children and little is known about the methods of criticism and education they adopt. Because some parents adopt the brutal approach of “Sanniang Godson”, the result is that the child not only can not recognize his mistakes, but instead causes the child to have a negative psychology, which is unfavorable to the child’s physical and mental health development.