孩子与别的小朋友发生冲突,甚至动手打架,这样的事情谁家也不可能完全避免。但作为家长,在处理这类事情时一定要慎重,切莫怂恿孩子逞凶。家长这两种做法是不对的:一是家长看见孩子在打架,凶狠地对别人家的小孩说“你再敢欺负我的孩子,我揍扁你”;二是家长怂恿自己的孩子去打别 Children and other children in conflict, or even fight, someone who can not completely avoid such things. However, as a parent, we must be cautious in dealing with such matters and should not encourage our children to act aggressively. Parents of these two practices is wrong: First, parents saw their children fighting, viciously said to other children’s home, “You dare to bully my child, I hit you flat”; Second, parents encouraged their children to bid farewell