如果你正在菜市场买菜,突然冒出两个拿着话筒扛着摄像机的人问“你幸福么”你一定不会感到意外。回答这个问题的方式多种多样,但人们普遍都认为自己身处幸福之中。其实,在回答这个问题之前,人们应该问问自己:我们真的了解幸福的含义么?也许大家都认为自己对“幸福”已经了解得足够多,形形色色的自助书籍教给你太多看上去很对的道理,“要宽容别人的错误、要从积极的角度思考问题、要坚持自己的梦想……”这些教条式的人生真理往往最终成为自己的负担,用事后成功和所谓的幸福作为诱饵抹杀了一切个性,这样按图索骥是否能真正找到真正的幸福? If you are shopping in a grocery market, suddenly two people who carry a camera carrying a microphone ask “Are you happy?” You must not be surprised. There are many ways to answer this question, but people generally think they are in good spirits. Actually, before answering this question, people should ask themselves: Do we really understand the meaning of happiness? Maybe we all think we have learned enough about “Happiness ”, and all kinds of self-help books teach you too much Go to the right truth, “To tolerate the mistakes of others, from a positive point of view to think about the problem, we must adhere to their dreams ... ” These dogmatic truths of life often eventually become their own burden, after the success and the so-called Happiness as a bait to obliterate all personality, so according to figure whether you can really find the real happiness?