一在现实生活中,我们难免会遇到失败和挫折,尤其是年纪还很小的孩子,他们由于受到身心发展水平的限制,经历、经验缺乏,更容易遭受失败和挫折。有时成人看来是很微小的失败,对于孩子来说可能是一次的小的打击。在遭遇失败和挫折时,孩子通常会不知所措,失望退缩,丧失兴趣和信心。其实,失败和挫折并不可怕,关键是如何对待它们。如果以积极、正确的态度看待,它们可能会成为孩子前进的动力;反之,可能会给孩子造成消极的影响,还会对他们的心理发展 In reality, we will inevitably encounter failures and setbacks, especially those who are very young, who are more likely to suffer failure and setback due to their limited physical and mental development, experience and lack of experience. Sometimes adults seem a tiny defeat and may be a small blow to the child. In the face of failure and setbacks, children often feel overwhelmed, frustrated, lost interest and confidence. In fact, failure and frustration are not terrible, the key is how to treat them. If viewed in a positive and correct manner, they may be the motivation for children’s progress; on the contrary, they may have a negative impact on their children and their psychological development