在我国,近些年来,随着改革,开放的大潮,一些传统现念正在被冲破。在法律允许的范围里,结婚自由,离婚自由,被越来越多的人所接受。加上别的一些原因,家庭离婚率有所增高。这是一个客观存在的社会现象。然而,正如列宁所说,“恋爱既牵涉到两个人的生活,并且会产生第三个生命,一个新的生命,这就牵涉到社会的利益,产生对集体的义务。”许多离婚的家庭都有一个孩子问题。这些孩子有的随了母亲,有的随了父亲,有的随了老人或其他护养人。但他们都还需要父母的爱,事实上许多父母也是爱他们的,只是爱的方法及后果很不相同。因此,讨论一下 In our country, in recent years, with the tide of reform and opening up, some traditional concepts are being broken through. To the extent allowed by law, freedom of marriage and freedom of divorce are accepted by more and more people. Coupled with other reasons, family divorce rates have increased. This is an objective social phenomenon. However, as Lenin said, “Love involves not only the lives of two people, but also the third life and the new life, which involve the interests of society and create obligations toward the community.” Many divorced Family has a child problem. Some of these children accompanied their mothers, some accompanied their fathers, and others accompanied the elderly or other caregivers. But all of them still need the love of their parents. In fact, many parents love them too, but the methods and consequences of love are very different. So, discuss